Though he didn't
know straight up about a cow.”
Cowboy Song
“Little Joe the Wrangler”
I am sometimes asked
an interesting question: “Should I wear a cowboy hat? I'm not a
cowboy.” the answer is yes. And no. And maybe. Many of us consider
ourselves “Westerners” or “Texans” and feel we have a right
to wear a “Western” hat. After all, a whole bunch of folks wear
western style hats, including truck drivers, politicians, athletes,
lion tamers, fashion models, Lady Gaga and Herman Munster. However
the question remains, who has the right to wear a cowboy hat? Here is
the best answer that I have.
There are amongst us
men and women who understand the cowboy philosophy. Its laid out
mostly in the movies by the Duke, Tom Mix, and Roy Rodgers, but it
really existed among men who lived on the range. Honesty, integrity,
grit, getting a job done, were qualities admired by men who lived in
the days of the great cattle drives and later. A lying, lazy horse
thief could get a man killed. The so-called “Cowboy way” is real
among many Texans and lots of rural folks. We “grew up a-dreaming
of being a cowboy” as Willie sang, and so we wear the clothes and
style of the west. But we are not all cowboys. I myself know, in the
words of my dad's favorite old song, I don't “know strait up about
a cow.”
I am a bit of a
horseman. I can ride pretty well as long as you don't run anything
too rank under me. I have been told by a real cowboy who I think a
great deal of, that “I would do to ride the river.” However I am
not a cowboy by any means. I think the extent of my cow knowledge is
that you don't brand them after you drench them with worm medicine.
You who are cowboys of course will get this. The rest of you can ask
a cowboy. It'll be like homework.
Lets set out with
the definition of a cowboy. A cowboy, or cattleman, actually knows
how to raise and work cattle. My friends Rodney, and Cody come to
mind. Raised in the brush country, they have “cow sense.” They
know about cows. My brother-in-law is a cowboy. He knows how to throw
a rope. He knows about cow horses and Catahoula dogs and de-horning
and stuff. I know that I like steaks, what my friend Hardin calls
“dead cow.”
I got to know a
gentleman named David, who came to the shop for a while the other
day. He is a pretty damn good story teller. He was raised in Duval
county, in the brush country. He told me that the man who taught him
cattle working, showed him how to tell a barren cow from one that
would produce a calf. He says he can still pick them out, and he is
right almost 100% of the time. David is a cattleman or a cowboy or
whatever term you wish to choose. He has the integrity of a
cattleman. He doesn't care for disrespect. He does what he says he'll
do.
By the way, cowboys
have a lingo. I don't mean “get along little dogies” or “Yippi
ti yay” either. There are words you hear a real cowboy use that
gives them away. They might use the term “welty” for a trip
around the pasture, or call a horse of a certain color a “grulla.”
They might call you a “gunzel” if you do something particularly
stupid. And remember in South Texas at least, don't call those
leather things cowboys wear on their legs “chaps.” The local
cowboys call them “leggings.”
Anyway, if you want
to wear a cowboy hat, go ahead. Maybe you might want a gambler style
or something like Waylon used to wear. That's cool. But don't go
telling some lady from New Jersey that your a cowboy. Wouldn't
be honest. Of course if your sitting in the Menger Bar and some
attractive gal from New York or Minnesota asks “Are you a real
Cowboy?” even the real hands might cut you some slack if you answer
yes.